The day we stop playing games

              Mind games. Men play them. Woman mastered them. Its all over the social structure of many countries. I hear itis everywhere:

"Gurllll this nucca here think I'm stupid,. Now all of a sudden you have a password on your phone?


"So...who is this new friend of yours?"
"Oh he is just a co-worker."
 "Right and why is he calling at 11pm?"
"....."
"Yup, that what I thought, ole trifling woman.."   So on and so forth.  See things like that are generally acceptable at a high school level, a little less at the collage level.  When you are in your mid to late 20's..err not so much. 

Indeed.  Mental foolery.  Now I am all for seeing things from the other perspective.  After all a slanted view of the world makes for limited perspective and a dull mind, but when you do so with the intention of deceiving  in order to take advantage of the opposite sex, that when I take issue.  So fellas and ladies, stop folling your self and stop the games.  Really ask yourself what is it that you want, and what is it that your potential partner wants,  Be truthful with one another and build.  Other wise we get this:



(black men) my opinion


And this: 

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=g6tclSqqJTk&feature=related


Yeah...not cool.  Moral of the story, quit the games and insecurity.  Communicate a little better and maybe healing  and building can really start.  

What do you all think: Do we as opposite genders play to many games? And what would you like to change about how we communicate. 


Re: (Black Men) Msprophet123
Peace.

Gems of the web

Peace Family, back again with some real treats for you.  If you are like me, the run of the mill entertainment just doesn't do it.  Contrary to popular being fed the same programs just to keep up with the "mainstream" is not the move. Different style and pattern ah wha we say, awo.

So in light of that I have for you some web gems.  Shows that if you wanna laugh out loud and learn something is a must see. So get the popcorn, call your partner up or ya homies and loosen up.  

1)

Yes you are...I love it

My girl Issa Rae. I get weak watching her.  Don't judge me damn it.  Seriously  her humor is off the wall. Smart, sassy and yes sexy. The low cut defiantly works I highly recommend this show. If you like stuff like the Office, then this is for you.  Weak I tell you.


2) Sa neter- http://www.youtube.com/user/BLACKNEWS101

Now, this man and his organization, the House of  Konsciousnesses brings so much history and knowledge to the masses its ridiculous. And to tell the truth sometimes I laugh my ass at the moments caught on film.  I'm talking tears, holding my belly type stuff.  Think different and vibe and you will get it.  Natural Tehuti and Queen Noble. Nuff said...


Question: What shows or news sources do you watch that are off the beaten path? Holla @ me.

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Treat her like a dish....Eat well

   Are you ready?? 

 If your a man like me, chances are you probably love women. I mean absolutely adore and revere them. Its , well, a law of Nature. So yes, rejoice in the fact that there is literally a bevy of intelligent, driven and willing ladies out in this crazy world to build with.  Its good to be among the living right now.

     Allow me to set the scene for a second. I'll be brief: Underground, MTA travel hustling, headphones on, notebook and a pen.  The usual. The doors open, as they are prone to do, and in walks this little pettie cinnamon skin beauty(something like the picture above). My first thought was.."Wow i want to devour you", literally and figuratively. I know, ya'll are like "this nucca here". But seriously I wanted to eat her, and not on a zombie, bath salt level either.

    

      See, I have learned in this life. That one way to appreciate a woman is to treat her like a meal. A meal in order to be enjoyed thoroughly, must be prepared with the utmost love and attention.  The fine details of the scene must be manipulated in such a way that it is made unforgettable. Oh and for the record I don' t simply mean the night of the feast. No, no I am talking long before that blissful night.  I am speaking of devouring her presence: the lilt of her voice, the sway of her hips, the heat she gives off. All of it.

      

      Treat her like a meal, gentleman. Prepare the scene, and take care of the ingredients used to make the meal.  That way the first taste will be the sweetest pleasure 

When the search begins..AKA to cuff or not to cuff?

 So...summer is almost over and that means the weather will turn cold and frigid, much like that summer love's emotions after she caught you trying to holla at that other lady( or fella).  Such is life in the city or suburbs for that matter.  Honestly summer flings turning into "Damn she was fly. Let me give her a call...What!? Wrong number, ain't this bout a b***h" is going to happen. 
   Which is why I suggest a few rules, well more like guidelines to dating during the cold season.  My brothers please just shut it and listen. Thank you in advance. 

Rule #1

    Do an Autumn cleaning of your phone book. 

   All non essential( read- booty that you will never see again, except that awkward moment on your  local train line). 
There is nothing worse than trying and failing to rekindle a dead relationship. Sorry, contrary to popular belief embers of flings that have long since past are not so simple to become roaring fires of passion. Unless it was just that amazing. Just let it go..please. Last I checked there are plenty of good, hardworking single people in the world.  And yes more than a couple are looking forward to finding someone to have a nightcap with the option to advance to cuffed status. Heed well Autumn is the season of cutting of the dead weight to make room for the new.

Rule#2

  Clearly define your intention

  Look, I get it. The pimp/player life is idolized all over. T.V, rap videos, err worldstarhiphop.com(sigh..ratchetnesss) to name a few sources. But in the real world this only leads to increase chances of becoming a real life stat.(3 baby mommas and counting..and why is it burning when I pee??) So yes, clarity is key , now and forever. Trust me, when honesty is involved entire new doors are opened; some of which are well..interesting to say the least. If you refuse to be honest with a potential partner at least be honest with yourself. Ladies, sometimes head at the movies is just that. Just calling like I see it. When you are in the cuffing mode, why waste time with the flavor of the week, when the house special is always on the menu? Remember non essential action leads to moments best left to the likes of teenagers just discovering the joys of lovemaking.

Lastly Rule#3

  Learn to be selective!!

  Can this potential partner satisfy most if not all the requirements necessary to make it to the spring? Or is this just a 6pm, I'm really tired of eating alone kind of thing? Not everything walking on the street is worthy of finding its way into your bedroom.  The bedchamber is sacred man.  Unless sleeping with everything that moves is your cup of tea, be a little sometimes. Real talk.

So let the cuffing begin> Peace.  

   
  

The gap between

Peace Family. I know its been a minute but...life gets hectic.  SMH. In the midst of making moves  I keep my ear to the streets. Believe me when I tell you ithe Gap in talent when it comes to underground music and the gook you hear on the mainstream, Im going to show you. its so apparent its disturbing.  

Case #1: Consciousplat . Check her out @ http://www.consciousplat.com/.  This lady is fly with out a doubt. Singer, songwriter and poet are but a few of her talents.  More importantly she radiates positive in her songs. The message is undeniable. Yet she wouldnt check a second look in the mainstream world.  Shows were the menatly is nowadays.  SMH

Case #2   


Mamasol. Find her @ http://mamasolmusic.com/. Fire. Fire. Simple and plain. Her lyrics are some of the most skillful i've come across in a while.  But you won't hear her played musch on the radio.  Maybein your town but not  in NYC.  No twerking so yeah....

Case #3  Dormtainment.  See these guys @ http://dormtainment.com/.  Gives new meaning to the letters LMAO.  Witty and surprisingly socially astute, the fellas bring a fresh sense of comedy to the net.  And trust they have a enough talent to easily hold their own on a network.  Its a shame that they don't have their own show streaming directly  to a vast audience.  




My thing is this when it comes to talent and originality the underground scene is so on it. No knock on the mainstream(well maybe a lill) , but how many times can we listen to a lifestyle that most know nothing about? Just saying. Until next time. Hotep.

The essential pt 2

Here is pt 2 of the essential book list of 2012. This is just my own personal mix of literature designed to lift the mind and spirit. Enjoy and learn. We are all capable of existing and manifesting a life worth living. Peace. 

Supreme Mathematic, African Ma'at Magic

Finance or Fiancee

The 33 Strategies of War 

The essential book list

So...the internet is the "new" water cooler. The place to be to swap knowledge and pontificate now.  Well personally I think we need to remember the oral tradition. That good ole fashioned art of forming words and expression with the tongue and mouth. Oh and do remember the feeling of a good book between the hands.Just saying. No worries I got you. Here is a list guaranteed to fill your minds with the fertile soil of reasoning and thought. Peace.

And remember people reading is Fun to mental...Ciao

My fair ladies

To the ladies, to the ladies.... Peace and blessings.  Just taking some time out to express my appreciation for all that you have given in terms of inspiring generations of Kings, and Queens, even though it seems a bit bleak at the moment.  I know sometimes it may look like we(men) do not appreciate you or respect what you mean to the world, but we do.  Well the ones who know and act  anyways,  I can't speak for the rest.  The only thing is, please take control of the image you  portray.  Falling victim to the brainwashing techniques of this current regime only undermines your allure and power to shape reality.  Your sexy, blessed with immaculte features, I get it. We all get it.  So why put it out so blatant?  Think about it: Is dressing and acting in an overly sexual light really your decision or is it a reaction to being boxed into a physiologically sexually repressive culture that uses sex a a marketing tool?.  Just saying.
30 greatest women in hip hop

Hotep

hmm makes ya think

Awww mama earth is lovely....Hey wait a minute she sure do look like a sister I know. Lol 

people power all day, everyday.

Peace...well 2012 is defiantly heating up.  I n the last few weeks, an explosion of violence is sweeping across the nation, mostly centered where else...in the Black communities( Detroit, the Bronx...).  So to offset that a bit, had to dig up some positive wisdom from the archives... Enjoy.

Time to shift the minds ya'll and stop playin

lol bless these children

Lmao..Now I know, love and protect the children...but c'm son lol. This sign out in White Lake shows just how fart this town will go to keep there kids. "tear' bless their hearts

Solar names and the powers they hold

Whats in a name

I guess the ancients had something going 0_o