Wednesday, September 19, 2012

The day we stop playing games


              Mind games. Men play them. Woman mastered them. Its all over the social structure of many countries. I hear itis everywhere:

"Gurllll this nucca here think I'm stupid,. Now all of a sudden you have a password on your phone?


"So...who is this new friend of yours?"
"Oh he is just a co-worker."
 "Right and why is he calling at 11pm?"
"....."
"Yup, that what I thought, ole trifling woman.."   So on and so forth.  See things like that are generally acceptable at a high school level, a little less at the collage level.  When you are in your mid to late 20's..err not so much. 



Indeed.  Mental foolery.  Now I am all for seeing things from the other perspective.  After all a slanted view of the world makes for limited perspective and a dull mind, but when you do so with the intention of deceiving  in order to take advantage of the opposite sex, that when I take issue.  So fellas and ladies, stop folling your self and stop the games.  Really ask yourself what is it that you want, and what is it that your potential partner wants,  Be truthful with one another and build.  Other wise we get this:



(black men) my opinion


And this: 

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=g6tclSqqJTk&feature=related


Yeah...not cool.  Moral of the story, quit the games and insecurity.  Communicate a little better and maybe healing  and building can really start.  

What do you all think: Do we as opposite genders play to many games? And what would you like to change about how we communicate. 
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Re: (Black Men) Msprophet123
Peace.


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